Grogan’s well laid out book and fluid writing style provides an accessible formula for developing morning rituals in the form of a collection of habits.
"We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then is not an act but a habit."
Aristotle
His rationale for focussing on morning rituals seems sound to me - but beware night owls, he has little truck with you. Essentially, Grogan asserts that building in regular morning habits conserves creative energy and gives you a psychological boost for the day.
He has developed his own approach called Messi (yes, somewhat dedicated to the footballer) which you commit to practising habits for 21 days
- Meaningful - the habits you want to develop have real meaning to you.
- Easier - you design your habits to be easy to do
- Social - you find someone to partner with and commit publicly to doing the programme
- Setback ready - figure out how you are going to manage setbacks in advance.
- Incentivise - create strong positive and negative daily and completion of programme incentives.
It’s a good compliment to Steve Scott’s book on the same topic of habit formation which has more specific ideas.
I also appreciated his description of what is a super habit (yep, the prefixing of super to everything seems to be habit de jour in this space at the moment):
- Thankfulness
- Rest your mind i.e. something like meditation
- Affirmations. Essentially, identify limiting beliefs and create positive affirmations that say the opposite.
- New learning
- Sweat i.e. exercise
- Fuel i.e. good food.
- Outdoors i.e. get out into nature if you can
- Remind yourself of what you want to be e.g. goals etc. use a mood board, write down goals on paper in your wallet, sketch pictures of future, or simply imagine.
- Make a promise - 3 promises about what will make today great for you (and others).
That spells out TRANSFORM - cute, if slightly laboured. The case studies, even if real, fictional or a hybridisation of the two, were a smart way of seeing how this works in real life and to help overcome objections.
“I see life like on long university education that I never had, every day I’m learning something new”
Richard Branson
I already have a daily set of rituals I do so by and large much of what is in this book wasn’t that new to me. But I have started drinking 500ml of water on waking which is definitely helping with mental performance early on. I might try the genius moment stuff too - although just the name is making me feel self-conscious.
Verdict: Excellent self contained introduction to habit formation.
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